This should be easier by now!! 《- THIS phrase lives inside me and it is my constant work to let it go.
When it comes to setting boundaries, untangling my codependency to manage other people's emotions, letting other's experience their path even if I think I see a better one for them, putting down the advice & unasked for feedback, and unhooking for others opinions & judgement - letting that mean nothing about my reality... well I've been at this fully for a year - so shouldn't this be easier.
I know this truth. Sometimes this flows naturally in and I, almost seamlessly, allow and speak and put things mentally back in another's hands and just flow on with myself.
Sometimes I cry, go quiet, swear (usually to myself), feel unkind, impatient, selfish, icky, uncaring and unsupportive. It feels...hard.
And that is the reality. It gets easy and, also, it doesn't.
But that's not the part that we should be looking to in order to celebrate ourselves and see our growth.
If we are are still there doing the work of showing up in our worth - that's the point.
Celebrate you today if you've been holding yourself back because it still feels "hard" and it's doesn't feel "easy". That's not the point, love 💗💌